I love liking all the positive, encouraging pastors,
ministries and Christ-centered organizations on Facebook. Because my newsfeed is filled with positive,
encouraging, Christ-centered messages throughout the day. Today, a pastor posted
this prompt:
“Share your best family traditions to keep Christmas Christ
centered.”
And I really liked this request. It stopped me in my tracks as I read it in
the midst of cleaning the tops of my kitchen cabinets so I could adorn them
with our Christmas village. And as I
looked around the room with Christmas decorations literally overtaking my house
as I try to dress it for “The Season”, I pondered. What do we do during this season as a family
that keeps Christ in the center? Because the truth is, the ugly truth of it all
is, I couldn't care less about decorating for Christmas. I really find it a nuisance I don’t enjoy
even when it’s done. I do it for someone
else. It means something to the Chef so
because of that alone it means something to me.
But I could go the whole year without one hall decked to the nines in
red and green. But I will say the joy it
brings my children and my husband does make it worth it. Mostly.
And we are in memory making years, tradition establishing
territory. Our kids are young and we’re
trying to set precedents. And Pinterest
makes me feel like a failure before I’ve even begun. What are my kids going to remember about
their childhood Christmas seasons? And
what do I really want them to remember?
So back to the question at hand. What do we do to center this season around
Christ? Because that is the only thing I
want my kids to remember. That there was
no hoopla, only Christ.
And in that very moment, I realized I was trying so
desperately to squeeze in all these things to keep Christ in the center that I
squeezed Christ right out. So on the
third day of December, I decided to simplify all my plans. The day after Advent began, I realized that “the
Coming” is the only thing that matters and maybe it’s in emulating the
character of Christ that helps us anticipate Him the most. Because when we try our best to love our
neighbor, to be humble, to be patient, to give beyond ourselves, to bind up the
broken hearted and set the captive free, we fail miserably compared to Him. And so the waiting for His presence is so
much more anticipated and we watch the clouds with a deep longing, alert and
ready for Him to fill in our weaknesses with His strength, our failings with His
grace.
I mean numbered doors are nice, tinsel and lights are
pretty, but the the Babe tells us what He wants. “Give unto the least of these and you have
given to me. Love your neighbor as
yourself. Pick up your cross and follow me."
Can this be stuffed behind doors or must it be cultivated in hearts?
This time of year isn’t really a time to ramp up but to slow
down, to be watchful and to wait for His coming. His presence coming into our lives in a new
way. Because we stopped. And we watched. And we expected. And we believed. And He was pretty clear
about that, too. “Your faith has healed you.
Get up and go. Because of your faith, you now can see. Because of your faith… Just believe.” I think my faith tends to get tangled in the tinsel this time of year.
So for the next 22 days, we will unfold the Christmas story
slowly. It's in the slow that family memories are seared into hearts. And the wonder will come not
from anything that is seen but from all that is yet to come. And we will wait… expectantly, as a family. And we will prepare our hearts room to “believe the unbelievable”, as a family. And as we wait for
the Messiah to come, to reveal Himself to us in a new way, we will focus on showing those around us, including each other, what we already know by the way we live, by the
way we love, as a family. The Word became flesh and dwelled among us. Full of grace and truth. A Savior, born in a manger to die on a cross… for all the people, all for love. Unbelievable?
What do you need to believe this Christmas season? That with God, all things are possible
(Matthew 19:26)? A baby can be born of a virgin and Light can overtake the darkness. Believe.
And watch what happens in those hopeless, dark places as the Light of the world
comes crashing in with power and glory. It’s almost time. Come. Adore.
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